3. But what if you aren’t happy with yourself?

Western society is addicted to self-esteem.  We praise people for loving themselves despite their flaws.  To some extent that’s a healthy outlook, but ignoring malignant personal flaws is a bad long-term plan.  No amount of self-congratulation will rid you of bad habits or make you more interesting.  Being you isn’t effortless.  It takes work.

When I entered the seduction community I was averse to the concept of changing myself.  I thought, “How can I find true happiness if I’m being someone else?”

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